Your Signature Look: Finding Your Own Personal Style
15 Jan 2024

On the very first day of the year, we looked at some of the trends likely to drive style and fashion in 2024. It is important to stay on top of what is current in the ever-changing world of style – but the classic is timeless, individual and unique. Finding your own personal style is a journey of self-discovery and expression. It is less about the outside in than it is about the inside out. Your clothing choices reflect more than just your personality or preferences. It is a statement, an aesthetic declaration, the way you navigate the world.

Style is a better word than fashion. Fashion merely looks at approved trends. But style is something authentic and empowering.

With so many gurus, opinions and commercials pulling at us – in every which way direction – women can embark on the process of cultivating their own personal style not just to make the most of their assets and as beautiful as they could be – but indeed – to nourish their inner selves and express what is most unique and truthful about their own souls.

  1. Self-Reflection: Understanding Your Tastes and Preferences:

A good first step in discovering your personal style is self-reflection. Really take some time to consider your likes, dislikes, and the things that make you feel comfortable and confident. Consider your favorite colors, fabrics, and silhouettes. Think about the occasions where you feel most like yourself and note the styles that resonate with you. Look for golden threads, take note of recurring notes. Most importantly – this is not about the expectations of others. This is about you – what makes you comfortable, what makes you feel centered. This self-awareness lays the foundation for building a wardrobe that truly reflects your identity.

  1. Create a Style Mood Board: Visualizing Your Aesthetic:

A style mood board is a fantastic tool for visualizing your aesthetic preferences. Collect images from magazines, Pinterest, or fashion websites that inspire you. Look for common themes, whether it’s a particular color palette, a recurring style icon, or specific clothing items. Think of yourself as a professional stylist, working for a client, and put together something versatile but coherent to give your client – you – a real sense of the overall look you will be creating. This visual representation will serve as a guide when you’re curating your wardrobe, helping you stay true to your desired aesthetic.

  1. Experimentation: Trying Out Different Styles:

Finding your personal style involves a bit of experimentation. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try different styles, even if they seem unconventional. In fact, have fun. It is critical that your individual sense of style accommodates enough variety to have room for any quirks you might have or like. Don’t limit yourself. Visit thrift stores, explore different sections of fashion boutiques, and experiment with various looks. Try new things and see how they fit. If they don’t, you can always go back. Forget the perfect day – think about a very good week, month or year. By trying out different styles, you’ll gain a better understanding of what resonates with you and what doesn’t.

  1. Signature Pieces: Building Your Wardrobe Staples:

Identify key pieces that make you feel confident and comfortable. These are your signature items that will form the backbone of your wardrobe. Whether it’s a classic white button-down shirt, a well-fitted pair of jeans, or a statement accessory, these pieces will become the foundation upon which you can build diverse and expressive outfits. It is amazing how many options and variations you can give yourself simply by selecting the correct signature pieces.

  1. Inspiration from Style Icons: Influences and Inspirations:

Look to style icons who resonate with you for inspiration. Whether it’s classic figures like Audrey Hepburn or contemporary influencers on social media, studying the fashion choices of others can provide insights into your own preferences. However, remember that your style should ultimately be an authentic reflection of yourself, so use these influences as a flourish, a last or finishing detail – rather than the foundation. You are the foundation. They can only add and enrich.

  1. Adaptability: Evolving with Your Changing Tastes:

Personal style is not static; it evolves as you grow and change. Be open to adapting your style as your tastes develop. Embrace the freedom to explore new looks, experiment with trends, and refine your aesthetic. Your personal style is a journey, and it’s perfectly normal for it to shift and transform over time. You are not a painting or a dull – you are a vibrant, creative, living, changing, evolving being. Let your style serve you – never the other way around.

  1. Comfort and Confidence: The Ultimate Style Indicators:

The cornerstone of any personal style should be comfort and confidence. The clothes you wear should make you feel good about yourself and reflect your authentic self. If a particular style or trend doesn’t align with your comfort and confidence, it might not be the right fit for you. Prioritize pieces that make you feel empowered and at ease in your own skin. You’re getting the message – you are at the center, and the trends are tools. Use only the tools you like to get the outcomes you want.

  1. Curate, Don’t Accumulate: Quality Over Quantity:

Building a wardrobe that reflects your personal style is about curating, not accumulating. Focus on quality over quantity. Invest in pieces that align with your aesthetic and are versatile enough to mix and match. A thoughtfully curated wardrobe filled with items you genuinely love will eliminate the stress of decision-making and ensure you always have outfits that resonate with your personal style. A few high-quality items is better than plenty of rubbish. Discovering your own personal style is a rewarding journey of self-expression and self-discovery. It’s about embracing your unique identity and using fashion as a tool to communicate who you are to the world. By reflecting on your tastes, experimenting with different styles, and building a wardrobe that aligns with your authentic self, you’ll find that your personal style becomes a powerful form of empowerment and confidence. Fashion is not just about what you wear; it’s about how you feel in what you wear. Be it, girl, and you’ll wear it.